Wes has dropped in for a quick Christmas visit, tucking me in between a stop in Florida and his Virginia holiday blowout. I had a short list of chores only a son can complete ready for him, and he had a short list of things I needed to help with, including a particularly delicate shopping assignment, but then the sun peeked out. You know what happened!
I love the Game of Golf -- for the sheer pleasure of playing a round, for the mental discipline the game demands, for the lessons I learn every time I take the tee box about staying in the moment, playing the Game -- and living my Life -- with patience, good humor, and dignity, as it is presented to me.
Tuesday, December 23, 2014
Saturday, December 20, 2014
It's Cold. It's Raining. It's Saturday. I'm Golfing!
My list of undone tasks is way too long -- pay bills, change the parrots' papers (a healthy parrot poops every 15 minutes, around the clock and there are five healthy parrots in my life happily pooping in concert), shop for stocking stuffers, get the guest room comforter off the shelf and into a duvet cover and onto the bed.
Wednesday, December 17, 2014
Why Not Front Page News? Some Thoughts on Ben Martin, Shanshan Feng & Laetitia Beck
Ben Martin's putting clinic at Shriners Hospital fort Children-Greenville, SC. Photo credit: Scott Chancey, Greenwood Index-Journal. |
The 24-hour news cycle has made it possible to follow, almost shot-by-shot, the search for a crazed cop-killer in Pennsylvania and the attempt to liberate a cafe packed with terrified customers being held hostage in Sydney by a crazed jihadi, or was he?
Have I omitted something? Probably. It's been almost too much to absorb. Am I getting desensitized to mass violence? Or am I, in the golf season interregnum, just more attuned to the 24-hour news cycle blood and guts filler?
Tuesday, December 16, 2014
My Time With Mickey Wright & Harvey Penick, A Guest Post by Sam Adams
Sam Adams, Essentially Golf |
I met Sam Adams through the Google+ Golf Community (if you love golf and aren't a member of the Community you're missing an opportunity to connect with others who share your passion) and discovered that while we've never met Sam's living and teaching golf within about 30 miles of my home base. As our conversations unfolded I also discovered that his approach to teaching draws on his friendships Mickey Wright and Harvy Penick, golfers I admire enormously.
Mickey Wright played on the LPGA Tour from 1955 to 1969, was elected to the World Golf Hall of Fame in 1964, has been named all-time top woman golfer by both Golf Digest and Golf Magazine, and penned Play Golf the Wright Way, a book I return to again and again as I continue to refine my relationship with this pesky, humbling, befuddling game that so engages me. I was more than a little impressed when Sam shared with me that he's actually played a round or two with her.
My son Wes introduced me to Harvey Penick and his little red books several years ago when he tucked a couple of the volumes into my carry-on bag at the conclusion of one of our golf matches and said, You'll enjoy reading these on your way across the country at 32,000 feet. Wes was correct. I've read them all now, but my favorite is For All Who Love The Game: Lessons and Teachings for Women. Although he's best remembered as Ben Crenshaw's coach (it's said Harvey continued to provide guidance to Crenshaw from his deathbed), like my current swing coach, Tommy Pendley, Harvey Penick had that rare capacity to nurture the golfer who lives inside many women and his writings speak to me and inspire me.
How could I go wrong with a guest post from a fellow South Carolinian who's learned his trade from these two golf luminaries? I couldn't. So here's Sam's guest post on the wisdom and the inspiration he gained from Mickey Wright and her coach, Harvey Penick:
Saturday, December 6, 2014
Thursday, December 4, 2014
The Bethel Wars: Round 3, Wes By 5
ASU Karsten Golf Club, 8th fairway |
Wednesday, December 3, 2014
The Bethel Wars: Round 2, Mom By 1
On the way to the 1st tee at Dinosaur Mountain |
Monday, December 1, 2014
The Bethel Wars: Round 1, Mom By A Lot!
Wes and me at the turn, Gold Canyon Golf Resort Sidewinder |
We played the 2014 Thanksgiving edition of the ongoing Bethel Wars in the Phoenix metro area. Why Phoenix? With good
winter weather and good golf, why not Phoenix?
We hadn't been in town 24 hours when Wes and I
left the other Bethels still settling into our rental and took off for the
first round of our 3-round Thanksgiving match at the Gold CanyonGolf Resort Sidewinder course on a beautiful Arizona Tuesday
afternoon. ( If you're in the area and looking for a course, check out my Discount Tee Times review of Sidewinder. )
Sunday, November 23, 2014
The Bethel Wars: Thanksgiving 2014
We're going to Phoenix for our Thanksgiving match play 3-round series. I am so ready. My clubs are tucked into their traveling case, the pups and parrots are going respectively to Dog Came and Bird Camp for the week, and I'm going to take on Wes while the rest of the family chooses sides and functions as our personal gallery. And all this is going to take place under sunny skies and 70-degree mid-day temperatures!
Friday, November 21, 2014
There's An Elephant On The Tee Box!
I've always been grateful that my self-esteem isn't linked to my handicap or my scorecard, but I must confess that there's simply no better feeling in the world than a perfectly executed golf shot. Whether it's a long, arcing drive that flies up over the middle of the fairway, landing with that forward bounce and leaving me with an unobstructed target for my second shot, or a putt that curves along a break on the green and drops pleasantly into the cup, there's simply no better feeling to be had. I live for those rare and fleeting moments of perfection. But what about all those other not-so-perfect shots?
Saturday, November 15, 2014
My Fantasy Foursome
IBM CEO Virginia Rometty waited two years for her Augusta National membership invite. Photo credit: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/ |
Monday, October 27, 2014
Ted Bishop Take-Aways
Ted Bishop has suggested it doesn't count in his case because both his children are female and they've both made their careers in the golf industry and he's always been "a great advocate for women and girls in golf."
Feminist psycholinguists tell us that when men resort to gender-loaded insults there's more than a hint that those men not entirely comfortable with women as equals, but I'm not confident that the psycholinguists are widely read outside fairly narrow academic circles.
Still, is calling another guy a "L'il Girl" or saying he sounds "like a little school girl squealing at recess" insulting? And if it's insulting, who's being insulted? The guy who got called "L'il Girl"? Little school girls? All women? All men? The cosmos?
Tuesday, October 21, 2014
What's Wrong With My Game? Or Is It My Attitude?
I've found myself over the last couple of weeks more often than not leaving the golf course feeling frustrated, vaguely dissatisfied, irritable -- not the kinds of feelings I want to be having at the end of a round of golf.
I've been blaming it on my game. It's not been good enough -- I'm in a slump. I've had too many 3-putts. I need more distance off the tee. My chips are coming up short and off-target. The litany of my inadequacies had gotten way too long. I was overwhelmed.
I've been blaming it on my game. It's not been good enough -- I'm in a slump. I've had too many 3-putts. I need more distance off the tee. My chips are coming up short and off-target. The litany of my inadequacies had gotten way too long. I was overwhelmed.
Monday, October 20, 2014
Cold Balls - Warm Heart
Living in South Carolina, where fall comes later and spring comes earlier than many other parts of the US, I'm still playing in shorts but I know we're edging up to a change in seasons because I'm now taking a sweater with me to the golf course. Although I'm only wearing it on the range and through the first three or four holes, and although I'm still a little bit sweaty at the end of my round, I know cold weather's coming and with it cold hands, cold knees, cold nose, and cold golf balls.
Friday, October 17, 2014
Golf Is Not A Game of Perfect
Me (far right) and my instruction group and our very pregnant instructor (center) at the LPGA 1-Day Clinic, Druid Hills Golf Club, Atlanta |
It was a problem that just popped up, and I struggled with low-lying limbs and poorly placed tree trunks as I tried to get back to the fairway.
One of my playing partners, who's fairly experienced at navigating through trees, suggested after the round that I needed to develop an effective punch shot so I could get myself out of tree trouble.
Sunday, September 28, 2014
Captains Choice With A Twist: But Was It Real Golf?
With 92 participants, Puttin' On The Ritz might be the biggest golf event I've ever played. I could feel an electric excitement as I made my way through the breakfast buffet. I felt like I was in the middle of a flash mob on the practice green.
My team was the first wild card at Puttin' On The Ritz and it was a very fine draw! As the round unfolded I was equally in awe of Ginger -- my 90-year old teammate who played a steady, consistent game right down the middle of every fairway and who reminded me with every shot she took that I have many, many years of golf ahead of me -- and of Karin -- our A player whom we elected to captain our team while we waited for our turn at the first tee -- who brought the added value of a leadership style that combined technical skill with the ability to bring out the best game all of us carried in our bags to our team effort. We played a round of golf the likes of which I've never before experienced, carded 60 and took runner-up on a scorecard playoff. I'm on for next year!
Thursday, September 18, 2014
Girls & Boys & Sport
Team USA Members Celebrate Their 2014 Evian Championship Juniors Cup Win |
St Andrews Follows Augusta National
It's official! After 260 years, The Royal & Ancient Golf Club of St Andrews has voted by an overwhelming margin to admit women. The Home of Golf has finally stepped into the 21st Century and on behalf of all us women who love and play the Ancient Game I applaud them. Here's the response of one Women's Golf Association:
Friday, September 12, 2014
Rule 4-3b: Damaged Clubs: Repair and Replacement or GolfRage
So Yeon Ryu |
Ryu's recorded 38 top-10 finishes on the LPGA, three of them victories. She's recorded 282 sub-par holes and fired 280 birdies this year -- 3rd best among Tour players for both categories. She's an experienced pro and she's better-than-average, much better, on the putting surface.
Sunday, August 31, 2014
Golfing on Labor Day
Monday, August 25, 2014
Adventure Golf: Playing Beyond The Short Grass
The Great Search. Photo credit: http://www.mindgolf.net/598 |
I once asked Alma if she didn't get bored with hitting the ball into the fairway, hitting it again, still in the fairway, putting it on the green, and then dropping it into the cup. She's one of several regular playing partners who seem to deliver the kind of game fairly consistently that I've always secretly envied.
Where's the challenge? I asked her.
Don't you understand that the challenge is to stay in the fairway, she'd responded.
Tuesday, August 19, 2014
Athletes & Celebrities: Lydia Ko, Michael Phelps & Mo'Ne Davis
Mo'Ne Davis. Photo Credit: People.com/Gene J. Puskar/AP |
Monday, August 11, 2014
On Champions and Championships
Bonnie Bell, 2014 Star Fort Ladies Golf Association Champion |
I'd just settled in and adjusted to the fact that Pettersen had dropped back and there was a rookie in the mix at the Meijer -- Mirim Lee was playing at the top of the board alongside golf's Serene Queen -- when my Facebook chat went wild.
Matt Hooper, St Andrews Golf Magazine editor and Les Bailey, ProGolfNow editor, were yelling at me:
You're missing a classic . . . this is the matchup we've waited for . . . and no Tiger!
Tuesday, August 5, 2014
My Shot of the Day
On the whole, I didn't play a memorable round of golf today. I was a little slow getting out the door this morning and didn't have time for a proper warm-up before the women teed off. Various parts of my old body were complaining and resisting in one way or another. I fumbled my way through the first hole, which just isn't the way to start a round of golf. It was slightly too hot and slightly too humid to be pleasant, except when I could take temporary refuge in the shade and let the breeze function as my personal air conditioner.
But I had some good shots to tuck into my memory bank and I had one shot out of a bunker that was downright terrific -- it would have qualified for a Golf Channel replay!
But I had some good shots to tuck into my memory bank and I had one shot out of a bunker that was downright terrific -- it would have qualified for a Golf Channel replay!
Monday, August 4, 2014
Meet Me At The Diner: A Conversation About Golf & Golf Blogging
About eighteen months ago Charlie Bethel -- my younger son who does not play golf but with whom I share a passion for the written word, and who was working on his own writing project while he was visiting me -- suggested that I start writing a golf blog. Over a pleasant alfresco lunch on my deck we talked about that suggestion. Quite honestly, I'd never considered blogging. I'm a writer of books. But I followed Charlie's suggestion and found an intellectual, literary, and spiritual home in blogging. It's a dynamic form, offering an almost instantaneous connection with my readers, providing a venue with an embedded feedback loop, a virtual conversation.
You are crucial partners in this ongoing conversation that I enjoy so very much.
Tuesday, July 29, 2014
Tiger, Monnie & Me: Rule 25-2-Embedded Ball
Monnie at the 2014 SFLGA Spring Tournament |
Let me describe Monnie: she's the Lexi Thompson of the geriatric golfer set. She's strong, has a powerful swing, and is always nicely put-together, with a seemingly endless supply of matching visors, gloves, shirts and shorts.
Sunday, July 27, 2014
Almost A Great Shot (Except For The Bad Bounce or The Errant Pine Cone)
Heartbreak. Photo credit: www.lpga.com |
Friends who neither play nor follow golf and who do not share my passion were waiting for me to join them for dinner. I texted -- order some appetizers and have a drink -- I'm going to be late -- must see this hole to the end.
Monday, July 14, 2014
Rule 13-3/3: Building A Stance
Friday, July 4, 2014
Magical Golf Shots: An Eyewitness Account
Annette Walker, @TinkWalker |
Thursday, July 3, 2014
The Bethel Wars, Summer 2014 Edition
These dollar bills just keep getting passed back and forth, properly dated & tagged! |
Friday, June 27, 2014
Wes Is Coming - Game On!
Wes Bethel, fully kilted and ready for battle, The Links at Bodega Bay, California |
Wes Bethel takes his golf very seriously and he's rolling in Monday evening for another 2 or 3 rounds in the ongoing Bethel Wars match play. I wonder if he's bringing his kilt? He's sort of cute in a skirt!
Sunday, June 22, 2014
Sunday at Pinehurst Belonged to Michelle Wie
Michelle Wie teeing off Sunday at the US Women's Open. Photo credit: USGA |
Saturday, June 21, 2014
Moving Day at the US Women's Open
Saturday at the US Women's Open, the galleries are swelling Photo credit: USGA |
. . . that's Catriona Matthew, she's a mommy too and has little girls your age . . . and that's Michelle Wie, she might win the Open tomorrow (it was actually Azahara Munoz), and that's Karrie Webb, she's very, very famous because she's won so many golf tournaments, and that one in the pink shirt with the ruffles on her skort, that's Stephanie Meadow -- she's a college student . . .
Friday, June 20, 2014
A Walk Around Pinehurst No. 2
US Women's Open Trophy |
Thursday, June 19, 2014
The Mighty Lucy: Lucy Li's Very Big Day
Lucy Li. |
Sunday, June 15, 2014
US Women's Open: The Grand Vision
LPGA Founders & Pioneers. Photo Credit: www.lpga.com |
To be sure, there are thirteen personal stories behind this snapshot, brought together and united around an extraordinary and thickly textured vision that has shaped and continues to define opportunities for women to participate in competitive athletics at many different social levels.
US Women's Open: Remembering The Babe
Babe Didrikson Zaharias, 1911-1956 |
This was the year Babe Zaharias won the US Women's Open for the third and final time, defeating Betty Hicks (for the second time) at the Salem Country Club in Peabody, Massachusetts. It was her 48th and final victory on the links.
Monday, June 2, 2014
Own The Shot -- Good or Bad
Stacy Lewis, 2014 ShopRite LPGA Classic Champion, wins after an embarrassing 3-putt on the par-3 17th hole on Sunday. |
Sunday, June 1, 2014
The Dreaded Yips
The cartoon in my previous post aside, I have been fretting about my short game. Everything related to my golf game had been going along swimmingly for a couple of months, until about a week ago, when a couple of early warnings suggested that something was changing. First my trusty flop shot got a little unpredictable. Then my putts were all short. Some other small things began to get tangled and my scores began to creep up. But the real crisis occurred on Thursday at the Newberry Country Club Sandlapper's Tournament.
Friday, May 30, 2014
Maybe It's Not My Short Game
I've been fretting about my short game for the past week and am trying to write about the situation, but this makes me wonder if my problem might lie elsewhere.
Monday, May 26, 2014
Golf On!
"While our skill levels may vary, we here at Bagram Airfield find it relaxing to use the mine fields outside the base to practice our driving skills. Unfortunately, the ability to retrieve these balls is obviously limited. They do however provide great motivation for distance and accuracy!"
Sunday, May 25, 2014
Keep Calm & Golf On - Golf & The Battle of Britain
Ena Squire-Brown leaving her bombed-out home on the day of her wedding. Photo credit: www.dailymail.co.uk |
Friday, May 23, 2014
On Laura Davies and Lucy Li
There's something magical about a competitive sport in which a seasoned, experienced 50-year old professional athlete and an 11-year old amateur can meet on the playing field as equals. That's the nature of golf, and that's the nature of the US Women's Open.
Sunday, May 18, 2014
My Take On the "Ownership" of Professional Athletes: Basketball vs Golf
I've been watching the Donald Sterling debacle unfold on national television over the past two weeks with amazement and with deep sorrow. The Sterling-Clippers mess is, in many ways, the natural and logical culmination of the commoditization of basketball and basketball players, and could as easily have popped up in the pro football and pro baseball arenas.
The tragic subtexts in the Sterling-Clippers scandal are neither subtle nor symbolic: How, in the 21st Century, in an enlightened and civilized society, can an 80-year old oligarch "own" a group of athletes collectively valued at something north of $500 million?
April 27, 2014. LA Clippers protesting Donald Sterling's racist rant by wearing their shirts inside-out, hiding Clippers logo and name. |
Sunday, May 11, 2014
Friday, May 9, 2014
Lessons From Cut Day at Stoney Point
Joanna Klatten leads by 2 shots going into the weekend at the SRH Women Health Classic. Photo Credit: Scott A Miller. |
From the forward tees, a short hitter like me tends to try to shave the left edge of the fairway bunker and then proceed down the fairway with a couple of decent shots, two-putt, and walk off happily with a bogey. But an errant tee shot, and I've had many, will either put me in the fairway bunker, out-of-bounds on the right, or into a tree-poison ivy-snaky hazard that runs the full length of the left side of the fairway. I more often go in the bunker or right and out-of-bounds. Both are expensive mistakes.
Monday, May 5, 2014
Ready, Set, Go! Who's Coming In Hot?
Women's Health Classic Leaderboard, off the 18th Green at The Links at Stoney Point |
Sunday, May 4, 2014
Not Everybody Plays Blitzkrieg Golf
Greats of Golf Scramble, 2014 Insperity Invitational |
Friday, May 2, 2014
A Big Southern Welcome for The Symetra G.R.I.T.S. (Girls Raised In The South)
The Elephant Topiary, The Links at Stoney Point |
Stoney Point's hard at work preparing a huge Southern Welcome for the Symetra Tour players, staff, and fans. They have about two and a half days to finish getting the sidewalks edged, the tables inside the party tent set up, and tend to all the other little details that make a big party simply perfect.
Thursday, May 1, 2014
The Aussies are Coming to Town!
I've been checking the LPGA/Symetra web site daily for the last week, waiting for the Women's Health Charity Classic field to be announced. Finally, it popped up last night and I got my first peek at the golfers who are going to tee off next week at The Links at Stoney Point. We're in for a treat!
Wednesday, April 23, 2014
It's Spring! That Means Tourneys, Tourneys, and More Tourneys!
The Links at Stoney Point, Greenwood, SC |
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